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What
Rescue IS and What it ISN'T
- author
unknown
The
following information may seem harsh and you might not agree with some
of the things said, but please understand that these are the realities
of rescue. You may have encountered rescuers who didn't reply to your
emails or return your phone call, wouldn’t approve you to adopt or
foster a dog, or a rescue volunteer who was impolite to the point of
being rude.
As
you read further, you will be given an insight to a rescuer's life, and
perhaps you’ll begin to see why so many rescuers are not always the
soft, gentle counselors you may be looking for.
Rescue
is not a service for YOU. Not for you to find a dog,
or to get rid of your dog. Rescue is a service for the DOGS.
The dog is who we are here to help. Helping you is just a byproduct of
helping them.
Rescue
is NOT a shelter that you can just stop by to visit, pick out a dog, and
take it home with you whenever the mood strikes you. There is no place
to drop by and window shop, and no business hours.
Rescue
is a group of people who love the breed, open our homes and hearts to
the dogs, give them a place to live, and love them until we find them a
forever home. We take applications, screen them, do home visits and
reference checks. There is a volunteer's home on the end of any
phone number you are given.
Rescue
is not Dial-A-Person who wants to hear about your troubles and unload
your dog on after you’ve had it for 10 years and for whatever reason
it has now become inconvenient.
Rescue
is a phone number that reaches right into the home of a volunteer who
has little time to deal with your guilt trip over tossing
"Chi-Chi" out like last night's leftovers, and even less time
to deal with you see-sawing back and forth between keeping the dog and
giving it up.
Don't
lie to us or to yourself. Simply tell us the reason you are giving the
dog up, and answer the questions we ask. If we're going to help you, the
least you can do is help us speed the process along by not crying on our
shoulders.
We've
heard it all before ... allergies, moving, housebreaking, money, new
baby, too hyper, barking, sick, injured, nasty, uncontrollable, landlord
doesn't allow, parents said no, owner died and nobody wants, divorce,
marriage, too many animals, chases cars, chases cats, sheds, too much
trouble, new job, wants attention.
We're
not cold hearted. We simply have too many things to do and not
enough time to listen to how sorry you think you are about getting rid
of your dog.
Rescue
should be one of your last resorts. Try obedience training, crate
training, try everything you can before you make the decision to give up
your dog. When you've done all you can, call us and let us know
why you're giving up the dog in the least amount of words you can. We'll
ask questions, you answer them.
Rescue
is not a person sitting at the computer or phone all day, just waiting
for your call or email. We're not running home daily, hoping we'll
have lots of email and answering machine messages about more dogs
needing to be saved.
Rescue
is a group of people who already have a life, a family, a full-time job,
our own dogs, foster dogs, not to mention a multitude of vet
appointments, processing applications and holding fundraisers to help us
pay for the veterinary and other care that you neglected.
Rescue
is not a way for you to find a purebred dog for little or no money.
It is not a place you can pick up a "girlfriend" for Butch or
"boyfriend" for Fifi so that you can irresponsibly
mass-produce puppies.
Rescue
is responsible about the reproduction of their breed. In fact,
rescues believe that the only breeding that should be done is by the few
responsible breeders out there, and only to improve the breed.
Breeders are not people with "Free Puppies" ads either.
Responsible breeders care about their product and take pride in placing
them in loving homes where they will be cared for.
All
rescue dogs are spayed and neutered before adoption so that no
"accidents" happen. You won't get an unaltered dog ... don't
even bother to ask.
Rescue
is not a place that will take vicious, aggressive dogs and keep them for
the rest of their lives, living happily ever after in their owner's
mind. If you don't want to deal with your own dog who has a history of
biting and aggression, what on earth makes you think someone else would
want it biting them and their family? Not to mention the liability
of rescue groups fostering and re-homing “known” biters.
On an individual basis, we work with foster dogs to see if they are just
frightened or truly nasty. We allow those who are scared time to
adjust and overcome fear.
Rescue is
not a mail order service to find the dog of your dreams --loves kids,
cats, everyone, doesn't bark too much, is perfectly housebroken, weighs
three pounds, does tricks on command, and knows how to act in every
situation.
Every dog
has his own personality, and that is what matters. If you want a
dog that fits a few certain requirements, that's realistic, but trying
to find one that matches perfection is not going to happen anytime soon,
and if one comes in, we have a line 5 miles long of people waiting for
it.
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